The answer to Gary Numan's question 'are friends electric?' No, we are not robots all thinking alike.
A dad is generally very strong and can get his children out of difficult situations they get themselves into. If they choose to co-operate with the one who loves them so dearly, things go well and they learn. And we all learn different things.
If things are obvious and repeated like at WT KH, everyone repeats the same stuff and don't think about it. That's like brain washing. But Christianity is not brain washing. It is the exact opposite. If you want to know, you have to research carefully and you have to behave decently or God wont allow you to understand it.
I could quote the relevant scriptures to you but I expect you are quite capable of looking for them if you want them. And if you don't, you don't.